My fiance was taken advantage of?
Ok so, Im in a long distance relationship right now. I love my girlfriend with all my hart and shes te same. We have been together for two years now. So my girlfriend went camping with her mom and her moms friends last month and she was drinking….a lot. Now her mom went home because she had to work in the early morning. My girlfriend stayed with her moms friend. One of the friends brought one of their own friends that she did not know. He was very nice to everyone. Anyway I told her I didn’t like her being there with strange people drunk who are also drunk. I kept texting her that night and we always talk on the phone before she goes to bed every night. She fell asleep around 2AM and I hung up and went to bed because I thought she would be ok in the camper with her aunt. She calls me in the morning and tells me that the guy came into the camper and woke her up. He asked her if she was single(which he knew she wasn’t because she told him she was talking to me her boyfriend on the phone earlier.) She is hysterically crying at this point and she tells me first off that he DID NOT rape her. She tells me he was holding her down while kissing her. Now I heard how drunk she was on the phone and she was pretty shit-faced and her aunt took her to the camper. Anyway he held her face and was kissing her. I asked what else. She hesitates and answers that when she wouldn’t kiss him he grabbed her by the hair and shoved her down on him. She tells me he made her do it twice and she pulled away and tried to get off the mattress. But he was too strong so he kept her on the bed and took her by the throat and took her hand and did it with his hand. When he was done he went onto the camper couch and she ran out and cried then fell asleep on the lawn chair by where the fire used to be. She texts me in the morning and says that she was fine and when I asked if anything happened she told me. While she was telling me I was balling my eyes out crying. I don’t drink smoke or do drugs because I had a bad past and she promised she will go straight with me. I find out that she was not going to tell me until she asked her friend and she said she should tell me. I learn that and I feel like she lied to me, this makes me wonder if the story she told me was true. I wonder if it didn’t go like that like if she wanted it and if they did have sex and she cheated on me. The story she told me I do not consider cheating. After she told me that I left work took off the next couple days without telling her and came straight to her house and she cried on me all night.
This was a week after I asked her to marry me so shes my fiance not my girlfriend. I knew I couldn’t put her down about this I just needed to be there for her then…But now I don’t know what to do.
Im not looking for the answer to a specific question Im just really lost right now and I need a good overall opinion on this.