My fiance was taken advantage of?

Ok so, Im in a long distance relationship right now. I love my girlfriend with all my hart and shes te same. We have been together for two years now. So my girlfriend went camping with her mom and her moms friends last month and she was drinking….a lot. Now her mom went home because she had to work in the early morning. My girlfriend stayed with her moms friend. One of the friends brought one of their own friends that she did not know. He was very nice to everyone. Anyway I told her I didn’t like her being there with strange people drunk who are also drunk. I kept texting her that night and we always talk on the phone before she goes to bed every night. She fell asleep around 2AM and I hung up and went to bed because I thought she would be ok in the camper with her aunt. She calls me in the morning and tells me that the guy came into the camper and woke her up. He asked her if she was single(which he knew she wasn’t because she told him she was talking to me her boyfriend on the phone earlier.) She is hysterically crying at this point and she tells me first off that he DID NOT rape her. She tells me he was holding her down while kissing her. Now I heard how drunk she was on the phone and she was pretty shit-faced and her aunt took her to the camper. Anyway he held her face and was kissing her. I asked what else. She hesitates and answers that when she wouldn’t kiss him he grabbed her by the hair and shoved her down on him. She tells me he made her do it twice and she pulled away and tried to get off the mattress. But he was too strong so he kept her on the bed and took her by the throat and took her hand and did it with his hand. When he was done he went onto the camper couch and she ran out and cried then fell asleep on the lawn chair by where the fire used to be. She texts me in the morning and says that she was fine and when I asked if anything happened she told me. While she was telling me I was balling my eyes out crying. I don’t drink smoke or do drugs because I had a bad past and she promised she will go straight with me. I find out that she was not going to tell me until she asked her friend and she said she should tell me. I learn that and I feel like she lied to me, this makes me wonder if the story she told me was true. I wonder if it didn’t go like that like if she wanted it and if they did have sex and she cheated on me. The story she told me I do not consider cheating. After she told me that I left work took off the next couple days without telling her and came straight to her house and she cried on me all night.
This was a week after I asked her to marry me so shes my fiance not my girlfriend. I knew I couldn’t put her down about this I just needed to be there for her then…But now I don’t know what to do.
Im not looking for the answer to a specific question Im just really lost right now and I need a good overall opinion on this.




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My fiance was taken advantage of?

Ok so, Im in a long distance relationship right now. I love my girlfriend with all my hart and shes te same. We have been together for two years now. So my girlfriend went camping with her mom and her moms friends last month and she was drinking….a lot. Now her mom went home because she had to work in the early morning. My girlfriend stayed with her moms friend. One of the friends brought one of their own friends that she did not know. He was very nice to everyone. Anyway I told her I didn’t like her being there with strange people drunk who are also drunk. I kept texting her that night and we always talk on the phone before she goes to bed every night. She fell asleep around 2AM and I hung up and went to bed because I thought she would be ok in the camper with her aunt. She calls me in the morning and tells me that the guy came into the camper and woke her up. He asked her if she was single(which he knew she wasn’t because she told him she was talking to me her boyfriend on the phone earlier.) She is hysterically crying at this point and she tells me first off that he DID NOT rape her. She tells me he was holding her down while kissing her. Now I heard how drunk she was on the phone and she was pretty shit-faced and her aunt took her to the camper. Anyway he held her face and was kissing her. I asked what else. She hesitates and answers that when she wouldn’t kiss him he grabbed her by the hair and shoved her down on him. She tells me he made her do it twice and she pulled away and tried to get off the mattress. But he was too strong so he kept her on the bed and took her by the throat and took her hand and did it with his hand. When he was done he went onto the camper couch and she ran out and cried then fell asleep on the lawn chair by where the fire used to be. She texts me in the morning and says that she was fine and when I asked if anything happened she told me. While she was telling me I was balling my eyes out crying. I don’t drink smoke or do drugs because I had a bad past and she promised she will go straight with me. I find out that she was not going to tell me until she asked her friend and she said she should tell me. I learn that and I feel like she lied to me, this makes me wonder if the story she told me was true. I wonder if it didn’t go like that like if she wanted it and if they did have sex and she cheated on me. The story she told me I do not consider cheating. After she told me that I left work took off the next couple days without telling her and came straight to her house and she cried on me all night.
This was a week after I asked her to marry me so shes my fiance not my girlfriend. I knew I couldn’t put her down about this I just needed to be there for her then…But now I don’t know what to do.
Im not looking for the answer to a specific question Im just really lost right now and I need a good overall opinion on this.




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Insomnia…?

I’m 14, almost 15, and I have a severe case of insomnia. It’s been like this for a couple of years now. My mom doesn’t want me to take medications because she’s afraid I’ll get addicted. I’ve tried almost everything and but nothing works. Help!
I don’t drink milk.




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Buying a new bed for Heavy people. Pleaseeeee help!?

my mom bought me a really good bed about 6 years ago, it was a serta. This bed is for my fiance and myself. I weigh about 250, and he weighs atleast 300. I had a bed bug problem, and had to throw it out and at that time I had no money to buy a really good bed, so I ended up with a cr@ppy one. If I sit with my knees on the bed, I can feel the springs poke me. My real question is besides temperpedic what is the next best bed to buy. I can’t go over 1,300. I heard sterns and foster hold fat people better than sealy, serta, simmons. I’ve never had a constant back pain, or ache until this bed. What style is best for a aching back, I mean once I get a new bed I’m hoping my back pain will stop. I know I don’t want a soft plushy mattress. I want a high bed, with a pillow top. Do you have to buy special sheets for a 14 1/2 inch deep mattress? I’m afraid if I get a firm mattress, my back will still ache. I need something thats not to soft and not too firm, something that is JUST RIGHT. I know its a long question in many parts but, I really want to make sure i get a great bed. I’m a first bed buyer, and I don’t want to mess it up. THANKS SO MUCH
Thanks so much for the comments. What kind of bed did you get? Thanks again.




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What do I do when I hate a trip?

I’m gonna sound like a brat but my parents sent me on this trip to Taiwan for some camp for a whole month, and I really don’t want to be here. The whole island is so decrepit and ugly, especially the buildings. Right now I’m living at an aunts guest apartment and its so ghetto. Plus I can hear every little thing outside (buses, people, kids, etc) and the mattress is like hard as a rock. My aunt is great but I don’t want to tell her I hate it here. The camp doesn’t start for a few days but I just want to be home! I like being in America or Europe, just not here! The point of the camp is to culturally enrich us but I really don’t like any of it. My mom really doesn’t care what I think because she probably hates me.




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I have to purchase something to use for a mom and two kids to sleep on on the floor this weekend. I want something that I can roll up and store, not too expensive, but comfortable and useful for guests in the future. I’m thinking of a double memory foam mattress topper. or three twin foamies.




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what is a good title ?

For an english project i wrote a poem about the book " If I have a wicked stepmother, where’s my prince" But i cannot come up with a sutible title can you give me any suggestions that might work … a short one would be nice

here is the poem

My name is Lucy,
I am an artist,
Like my mom was,
I used to live in California,
With my dad,
Just dad and me,
No mom,
Cancer took her when I was three.

Then dad met Mara,
Life changed,
We move,
Not across town,
Across country,
I had a stepmother,
And twin stepsisters,
The evil kind,
Like in Cinderella.

New state,
New house,
New school,
Hard to make friends,
Hard to fit in,
Hard to adjust.

I lived in the basement,
With an air mattress,
No bed,
My dad,
And evil step family above me,
A bit isolated and sad,
New rules,
New chores,
New life,
Just like Cinderella.

Time passed slowly,
I learned to like school,
Especially art class,
Made 2 friends,
The real kind,
Met a boy too,
He played basketball,
I though he might,
Be my prince charming,
Coming to the my rescue,
Even took me to the prom,
I wore a fancy dress,
But I was no Cinderella,
And I sure didn’t have,
A fairy godmother.

I did have,
A stepmother though,
I was learning to live,
With her rules,
I was beginning to adjust,
Then she bought me,
An easel,
For my 16th birthday,
The real kind,
An antique,
The kind I had always wanted,
A wicked stepmother,
Wouldn’t do that.

Dad gave me a painting,
My mother had painted,
For me,
To have,
On this special day,
I melted.

At the prom,
I didn’t lose my glass slipper,
I had lost my head,
Prince charming,
Or so I thought,
Wasn’t the one for me,
Perhaps I didn’t,
Need rescuing after all.

There was a nice guy,
His name was Sam,
He wasn’t a prince,
He was an artist like me…
i like that idea i was thinking somewhere along the lines of just lucy or me name is lucy… can you also rate my poem or at least tell me if you like it
i like that idea i was thinking somewhere along the lines of just lucy or my name is lucy… can you also rate my poem or at least tell me if you like it




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because my mom and i tried and we coulndt maaaaan




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My mom is 92 and going to take a sleep apnea test tomorrow night. She is not in great health.




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How big is a tempur pedic pillow?

I am getting a tempur pedic pillow for my mom. She is 5’2", and the website says 5’3" and under need small size. Does anyone have a small tempur pedic pillow? Are they the size/bigger/smaller than an average pillow?




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